He had hit me before too. Its horrible and I cannot believe you are taking it so lightly. I pulled my checkbook out of my pocket to write what I considered to be a sizable gift for this other church. Talk About Family, Marriage and Relationships. He became the perfect husband shortly after he hit me for the last time 5 months ago now. The same Holy Spirit who lived in Jesus now lives in you. How to respond when someone spits in your partner's face Look at self Answer (1 of 3): Smile and ask her to spit on other side. That is the ultimate in disrespect. I always tell him its not right for him to do that but he never listens, please answer my question before it gets out of hand. 249Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland. Help me become rock-solid and unwavering in my love for others, including those who havent treated me too nicely. Clean my face with anti-septic wetwipes. Move into a hotel. Call a lawyer. Get a divorce. Spitting in someones face isnt as physically violent as See How To Advertise. He devoted the next part of his staff meeting to discussing all the things he didnt like about me and our church. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. When I look at how far I've come now, it's just amazing to me. So why dont you take a few minutes today to pray about the people who have let you down or disappointed you? (I know the answer to that one, because I stay). Your browser does not support the audio element. WebGet a divorce. Intentionally spitting on another person is an offensive touching that rises to the level of simple assault, the three-judge panel wrote. Imagine how your kids are affected, if my dogs are still like this, years later. 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Allow them to support you and your children at this time. 4) You spit in the face of every Canadian veteran who fought for FREEDOM! In that culture and time, spitting in ones face was considered to be the strongest thing you could do to show utter disgust, repugnance, dislike, or hatred for someone. 11) just short of an apology. 1) Ole Miss clearly lacks institutional control -- it spit in the face of the rules and was unabashed about doing so, daring someone 2) The Toronto Raptors do not merely spit in the face of prosperity. I worked and continued to be homeless, living in my car and showering at my now-husband's place, while I saved money for my own dwelling. John 1:11 tells us, He came unto his own, and his own received him not. Although these men who spit on and hit Jesus refused to acknowledge Him, He still went to the Cross and died for them. Because that is what will happen Why? The issue really wasnt the money, although we could have used the money ourselves at that moment. Especially when someone does it an Is he truly too far gone, is he too broken? The only reason that would be okay is if it was something you agreed upon before it happening, like in a sexual context. Has there ever been a time in your life when you felt like someone you tried to help later turned around and spit in your face? You and your kids deserve SO much better than that. I nor anyone I know has ever spit in anyone's face that is disgusting and I believe in some places it is a criminal offense. I risked everything, lost everything and had to start from scratch, literally. 15/04/2009 12:10. There are options - use them and get out. I found a home for my three dogs, who I had for YEARS, and the couple who took them changed my life forever. It's not too late to call the cops, I did not know that it was considered battery. Come join the discussion about love, romance, health, behavior, conflict resolution, care, and more! Its disgusting. It all depends if you value yourself and if you have any self-respect. As RedState reported, the annual White House Correspondents Dinner took place on Saturday evening. WebWhen a guy spits in his girlfriends face during an argument, what does that mean? I would have freaked the f**k out! Spitting in the face of your spouse after they have offered an apology is not a good way to have a good relationship. Wow!! I don't forgive people when they spit in my face. There is nothing you could hope to gain from further interactions with this person. If you know your worth,if you know how inestimably valuable you are you will not reduce yourself to a level where anybody will spit on you.its obvious you lack self esteem and you need to get your dignity back,abi did they have sex with you in the bush and your parents forced you on him without proper marriage rites when they realised you were pregnant? kulyie: If you know your worth,if you know how inestimably valuable you are you will not reduce yourself to a level where anybody will spit on you.its obvious you lack Adding a motor spits in the face of all of those goals. Then these religious scribes and elders did the unthinkable! Even our then Pastor refused to believe me. Youre a valuable person, dont let anyone disrespect you like that, it doesnt matter how much you like him or love him, he doesnt care about your feelings, he doesnt respect you, and with time he will hurt you more and more, dont let that happen. I am so sorry he treated you this way How awful to start the day like this!!! They got me a job after I searched for months, allowed me visitation with my "kids", (that really kept my spirit alive during this time, because wouldn't you know it - after I found it was so difficult on my own, I started REGRETING having called the police on my ex)!!! Let me tell you something. Now isn't the time to be proud, this guy is a danger to you and it could and probably will escalate. 6) unapologetically wasteful behaviour displayed by a public institution in the present trying economic climate is spitting in the face of the many students they relentlessly attempt 7) offers zero permanent economic gains to Marshfield and destroys my family's property value while spitting in the face of our hard work with "just compensation". I know that with Your help, I can love them steadfastly no matter what they do! var daym=mydate.getDate() While you are figuring out what to do in such a place------Just to say for you to be locking up yourself in a room or something next time he goes that crazily ballistic so he doesn't harm or even kill you. var montharray=new Array("January","February","March","April","May","June","July","August","September","October","November","December") All quotes delayed a minimum of 15 minutes. It probably doesn't matter but what contexts did this take place in? After a YEAR of this I finally got my own home, and moved in just days before Christmas. I know it's hard to believe, but there are men out there who won't hit and spit, no matter how provoked they might feel. I have been spit on before so I understand. Have you tried spitting on him? You deserve better than this. 1. var day=mydate.getDay() by dawnomike(m): 10:49pm On Dec 23, 2021; My mum/wife can not be in the position where just anyone will spit at them. You are human, demand to be treated like one! Matthew 26:67. I understand you been with him for 5 years but even if you were with him for 20 years don't you feel you deserve better? What rubbish! 5) response to a people deep in struggle. Nov 10, 2011. female Couldnt he have done any better than this? When I heard how he viewed the sizable gift Id given, I was quite shocked. See here for a complete list of exchanges and delays. Were you stunned by his behavior? I'm so confused. If you stay, you might as well tell him to abuse you and disrespect you. Privacy Policy | Return/Refund Policy. Subject: Husband spit in face. But in any other context that's not okay and you shouldn't put up with that. If you stay, you might as well tell him to abuse you and disrespect you. Nairaland - Copyright 2005 - 2023 Oluwaseun Osewa. Out of my own ignorance I accepted it. Lord, thank You for being such a good example of love that is unshaken and unaffected by other peoples actions. All rights reserved. Finally, the Spirit of God asked me, Are you willing to sow a seed for peace with this church? To ensure that this goal was accomplished, their own fists became their weapons of abuse. This was an extremely humiliating scene! Anonymous wrote: Um as far as I am concerned spitting in your face is the same as hitting you. We're hosting a Reddit Talk Live event on Tuesday the 21st of September at 11am PST (2pm EDT/ 7PM GMT) with relationship expert Kerry Cohen, and we'd love for you to join us! what if I was mistaken when I thought it was gone?!". 1. Posted April 11, 2011 You are having a conversation with someone you care about and this person For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. Yeah I usually try and play devils advocate, but spitting in somebodys face is enough to make somebody kill you. But soon after our dedication, this man stood before a large convention of several thousand people and sneered at our new facility. REALLY. Anonymous. My partner spat on the floor at my feet during an argument. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. And just because he tells you you don't know how lucky you are to have his nasty, hurtful, abusive self on your hands, doesn't mean he's right. Copyright 2011 Robert Ross. But imagine how Jesus must have felt the night He was taken to the high priest where He was literally spit on by the guards and temple police! Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! His love for them was unwavering unshaken and unaffected by their wrong actions. There is a lot to be said for a nice, kind, funny, sweet man who does not look like a catalogue model or a rock star and who thinks he is bloody lucky to have you. He wouldn't give them up and ended up breaking the keyless entry clicker before . Because that is what will happen if you stay. It'll be worse. FYI- spitting on a person is considered battery. [Abu Daawood] The scholars stated that the above narration is evidence that it is forbidden to hit the face when disciplining the wife. by sylviaplath Sun Mar 27, 2016 4:02 am, by Smelljasmine Mon Mar 28, 2016 3:59 am, by sylviaplath Mon Mar 28, 2016 7:19 pm, by Smelljasmine Mon Mar 28, 2016 10:35 pm, by Smelljasmine Mon Apr 18, 2016 2:41 am, Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 3 guests. Colleague 1: It does show a certain disregard and scorn for conventional strategies. Is your love for those unkind people consistent, unwavering, unshaken, and unaffected? reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): A WebYour spouse should be the only one in your eye, at least on paper and as far as they know. How did you act in response to that situation? So many heartfelt talks, so many dreams. I've watched him overcome some pretty hard things in our short marriage, but I have also seen him be one of the most hateful people I've ever met and not just on crack, I've seen him sober and hateful, I.e. what if all that stuff from before actually was not enough to remove it? Was he so unappreciative that you felt as if hed spit in your face? OUR VISION is to take the Gospel both to our nearby world and to the ends of the earth, proclaiming Christ, and warning and teaching every man with all wisdom, in order that we may present every person fully mature in Christ Jesus. When I heard about this event, it hurt so badly that it cut deep into my heart. I would not continue living with him either unless he puts a stop to it. My love for people is consistent, unwavering, unshaken, and unaffected. Its inclusive of rejection, isolation, and other forms of diminution and dismissal. I know what I need to do now. Lets be honest: there are many passive and subtle ways that Jesus replied by telling them that they would indeed one day see Him sitting on the right hand of power and coming with clouds of glory (Matthew 26:64). His adopted father had given us the house we lived in, and kicked me out as soon as he learned I called the cops on his son. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. If you told the man how you feel about him spitting on you and he continued to do it and you chose to stay then I'm afraid to say it but you my dear are the one who needs the counseling. Notice that it wasnt just a few who spit in his face that night; the Bible says, they spit in his face. The word they refers to all the scribes and elders who were assembled for the meeting that night.